Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn's relationship timeline

Publish date: 2024-05-29

Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn's six-year relationship has seemingly come to an end – but where did it all begin?

The 'All Too Well' singer – who is currently touring the US on her sold-out Eras Tour – and the UK-born Conversations with Friends star were a notoriously private couple, and as a result little is known about their time together.

However, over the years small details hinting at the origins and continued strength of their relationship seeped out either through lyrics on the singer-songwriter's albums; references made by the boyfriend and girlfriend to each other in interviews; or moments shared between the two of them during rare public appearances together.

Therefore, although "saying goodbye is death by a thousand cuts," join HELLO! as we take a look back at all we know about Taylor and Joe's secretive six-year romance.

How did Taylor Swift meet Joe Alwyn?

Neither Taylor Swift nor Joe Alwyn have ever officially confirmed the details of their first meeting. However, based on the lyrics from her Reputation track 'Dress' (believed to be about her relationship with The Favourite actor) fans have deduced that it's likely the couple first met in May 2016, at the 'Manus X Machina' themed Met Gala that year.

The line: "Flashback to when you met me, your buzzcut and my hair bleached" perfectly describes how both Taylor and Joe appeared that evening while attending the event, so fans have put two and two together to assume it was at the glittery NYC event that they met.

When did Taylor Swift start dating Joe Alwyn?

The answer to the question of when the couple started dating is even less certain.

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Following the 2016 Met Gala, the 'Getaway Car' singer got into a very public relationship with Marvel star Tom Hiddleston, but sometime in mid-to-late 2016 this came to an end. Soon after we can assume she started seeing Joe – but we have no idea of the exact timeline of events.

It was only in 2017 that rumors began to circulate that the pair were officially an item. Then, in November 2017 following the release of Taylor's sixth album Reputation, which featured several love songs that appeared to reference Joe, fans considered the couple pretty much confirmed. (In addition to 'Dress,' other probable Joe tracks included 'Call It What You Want' and 'Gorgeous'.)

In May 2018, these same fans went into a frenzy when Joe and Taylor independently posted photos of themselves alone, but standing next to the same cactus – clearly suggesting that they had visited the spot together and taken each other's photos while there.

Then, in September 2018, Joe finally broke the couple's silence on their relationship, telling British Vogue: "I’m aware people want to know about that side of things," when he was asked about his rumored relationship with Taylor. "I think we have been successfully very private and that has now sunk in for people…but I really prefer to talk about work," he finished.

Taylor and Joe were then spotted holding hands at the 2019 BAFTAs, and again spent the whole of the 2020 Golden Globes together – even though they had arrived separately.

Is Taylor Swift married to Joe Alwyn?

No, Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn never married. However, for several years there have been rumors circulating that they might have tied the knot.

As Taylor addressed in her recent single 'Lavender Haze', newspapers, magazines and the media at large regularly sought information regarding whether Taylor and Joe had wed. "All they keep asking me is if I'm gonna be your bride" Taylor sang, further criticizing this attitude by repeating "No deal, the 1950s [expletive] they want from me".

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However, while the Pennsylvanian-born musician disliked the focus people gave to the topic, Taylor wasn't against hinting that marriage could be in the cards for the couple. In several songs on her seventh album Lover (which is widely understood to have been inspired by her relationship with so-called 'London Boy' Joe), the 33-year-old made reference to wanting to tie the knot.

In 'Paper Rings', her chorus features the repeated line "I like shiny things but I'd marry you with paper rings" while in 'I Think He Knows' Taylor sings "I think he knows he better lock it down, or I won't stick around as good ones never wait".

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But as the Grammy winner has regularly emphasized, although her songs do draw from personal experience, they also often are made up of fictionalized scenarios and ideas – so we can't say for sure that Taylor is making a reference to the idea of Joe proposing to her in these tracks.

Following the Taylor's release of Lover and her subsequent cancelling of her planned Loverfest tour as a result of the Covid-19 pandemic, Taylor and Joe settled down to live as boyfriend and girlfriend throughout quarantine. During this time, Taylor released two new albums: Folklore and Evermore, both of which featured collaborations with an artist referred to as William Bowery – who was later revealed to be Joe Alwyn himself.

Joe also contributed to her most recent album Midnights, but when fans didn't see the actor around when Taylor began her Eras Tour in March 2023, some began to worry about the pair's relationship.

Are Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn still together?

In early April 2023, ET first reported that Taylor and Joe broke up in March 2023. The pair's split was reportedly "amicable" and "not dramatic," sources told the entertainment news website, before going on to say that "the relationship had just run its course." The article also claimed that the split was "why [Joe] hasn't been spotted at any shows."

While some fans are still holding out hope that perhaps the news is untrue, the majority have now come to terms with it as a factual report – especially as they have come to notice subtle hints which Taylor may have made about the split prior to the news breaking in April.

Neither Taylor nor Joe have made any public comment regarding whether they have split, but with the two having always stayed incredibly private regarding their relationship, it is very unlikely that we will hear anything from them in the future to confirm or deny the split which is believed to have occurred.

However, HELLO! has reached out to Taylor's team for comment.

How long were Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn together?

As there is little information regarding exactly when the pair started dating, it's impossible to know exactly how long the A-listers were actually together.

However, we do know for a fact that Taylor and Joe were together for at least six years, as the singer herself confirmed this in a recent video which explored the meaning behind her Midnights album single 'Lavender Haze'.

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